These past two weeks have been very informative to me in my search for answers in the special education filed. The sight that I am working in is a private daycare that is associated with a private Catholic school in Normal, Illinois. One of the concerns that I have about working in a private daycare is the availability of resources for children that have special needs that need to be addressed. Finding the resources that are available to us is a difficulty that I have come across in working in a private daycare. You are able to see the warning signs and know that a child needs help, but we do not have the resources to use that other state funded programs have. One interest that I have is finding out how to go about getting these resources for the children when the state is not the one providing the resources.
I really want to focus my paper and research for this class on helping children specifically with mental health issues. I have found in that often times these children are the ones that need the most help, however, they are often the hardest to get help for. After talking to the director at my site I found that both she and her teachers felt that this too was an important issue and one that was difficult to approach sometimes. She explained to me how often times when they approach parents about a child they take any issues with their personal mental health to be a slam at their parenting. Often times the parents think that a child is a certain way because of something that they did wrong, which is often not the case. One of the teachers at the center indicated to me that they would love some help in navigating through this process.
From my own personal teaching experience it has been the parents that are the biggest obstacle when it comes to getting a child help. They are often in denial about an issue with their child and will blame the child’s behavior on anything except the child. I had a child that had a sensory disorder in my class last year and it took many conferences and subtle suggestions before the parents would have even thought of sitting down to discuss the bigger issues and to get the child evaluated. This too was another issue that some of teachers stated they had struggled with in the past. Sometimes the parents get offended and would pull their child from the program..
Has anyone come across any of these issues in their own experiences with work? What kinds of things did you do for that situation?